autism, family & inclusion

Every little mind sees the world in its own colours

A gentle corner of the shop for autistic children, the people who love them and anyone who wants to understand a little better.

from one autism mama to another

Why this little corner exists

Being an autism mama has taught me to slow down, notice the small things and celebrate wins that other people might not even see.

Here I'll share bits of our story, the doodles it inspires and ideas that might help another family feel a little less alone. Every autistic person is different, so this is our experience, not a rulebook.

Lucy x

small things, big difference

Little ways to include everyone

You don't need a perfect speech or a special occasion. Inclusion usually starts with the small, everyday stuff.

  • Invite, then let them choose

    Offer the invitation and let the child decide how to join in. Watching first, playing alongside or popping in for five minutes all count.

  • Listen in more than one way

    Not everyone talks with spoken words. Gestures, pictures, signs, sounds and talking devices are all ways of saying something.

    How autistic people communicate

  • Give time and space

    Wait a little longer for an answer. Eye contact isn't proof that someone is listening, and quiet isn't the same as not caring.

  • Teach kindness out loud

    If a child is confused or unkind, step in gently, explain what's happening and show them how to be a good friend.

from the doodle diary

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Helpful places to start

If you're wondering about autism, waiting for an assessment or just want to learn more, these are reliable places to start.

This page shares one family's experience alongside links to established guidance. It isn't a diagnosis guide or medical advice, and it can't speak for every autistic person. If you're worried about your child, talk to your GP or health visitor.